Dizzy,
Sorry to here about your trouble with BMW. My R1150R has been a great bike and I'll ride it into the ground. However, unlike others on this board, I believe there are other excellent bikes out there than the R or BMW for that matter.
Ducati: that was my first bike. It was a Monster 620, small and uncomfortable, but a real blast around town. Ducati offers only a chain drive - another major reason I switched. The valve adjustments on a Ducati, every 6000 miles, need to be done by a professional. $$$ If you can live with the maintenance and chain the Multistrada is an excellent choice.
Moto Guzzi The Breva 1100 - the direct competitor with the 1150R comes with an ABS option, and I believe the 1200 Norge (1150RT). The "Griso" is more like a "Power Standard", no ABS - but those brembos aren't bad brakes!!
Buell I test rode the Uly in Daytona this year and was very impressed. Very agile bike, excellent brakes, Belt final drive, very good motor except the heat: Now apparently this isn't as bad to riders with more bike variety experience. The two bikes I've owned, the Monster 620 and R don't force allot of heat onto the rider, but apparently other bikes do?
Honda Big red has several cruisers with shaft drive, however the more sport-oriented standards, like the 919, come chain drive only.
Good luck with your quest ahead. A really good source for info is
http://www.advrider.com. Check out the "Road Warriors" and "Beasts" sections. You'll find plenty of info on the latest bikes that directly compete with the R1150R.
jb